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History is a collection of stories occurred either in the recent past as well as long ago. History is always written by the winners. When two
 cultures clash, the loser is obliterated, and the winner writes the history. History is the version of past events that people have decided to agree upon. Those who don't know history are destined to repeat it. History is a gallery of pictures in which there are few originals and many copies.  History is the witness that testifies to the passing of time.  Our daily experience forms part of our history and these experiences will either represents unpleasant stories and others make us feel in high spirits. Like anyone else, my daily experiences have an impact with my daily life. Consequently, below you will find some of these experiences both negative and positives. charter aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing. It is an account of the qualities of person. The combination of mental characteristics and behavior that distinguishes person from others. Let being those with negatives issues that surprised. Among the people that I had an opportunity to acquaint few personalities characterize 13 attributes. Possibly, all of us may hear the following words, but did not see people practically equally match that spec. let me begin the double standard subject.
 
1. Double standardBut is double standards?  Double standard is the application of different sets of principles for similar situations. In others people their words and their deeds are contrary to each. In reality Double standard is a type of fraud. There is a similarity between double and hypocrites. The bridge that connects society is extending support to the unfortunate members of the society. I have practically noted people who singing all the time tribalism slogans, but declines when there is need extending assistance even to the people most close to him. Demonstrating in words to others that you care the people to close you by blood and decline to extend financial assistance to the same people is totally double or Hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is derived from the Greek word hypocrisies, which meant playing a part on the stage, or putting on a mask to misrepresent reality. In the ancient Greek theatre, actors were known as hypocrites, without any negative connotation. In the real world however, being a hypocrite, pretending to be something while actually being something else, was and is definitely viewed as wrong and pretending something that are not in real is an evil act. Sometimes our pelicans are hypocrites as they all the time against tribalism while, they are the first members of the society who involve and practice in reality tribalism. Acting something that you are not prepared to practice in reality is disgraceful act. in all mandatory values.   

2.stingy.  The hidden truth is those who advocates all the time tribalism, but practically not willing to extend assistance to their follow members of the society by blood are in reality called stingers. . A stingy person is selfish. He or she has more than enough money and material possessions, yet refuses to share with those who're less fortunate. Selfishness and stinginess are strongly connected to each other. In the case of stinginess the person feels too insure to give some of his money to others because he believes he doesn't have enough money. Now does this mean that the more money people have the more generous they will be? No that's not correct because the insecurity stingy people feel is usually in their minds and might have nothing to do with the amount of money they have. In other words, a man can have a very large sum of money yet still feel financially insecure because of believing that he doesn't have enough money. If a person always felt anxious about money during his childhood as a result of believing that his family didn't have enough money to spend on him then he might grow into a stingy adult. This insecurity the person suffers from will prevent him from giving his limited resources to others. When a person believes that his resources are scarce even when these resources are emotional then he might become stingy. This also means that feeling insecure about one. Stingy means miserly, who do not want to spend his money whatsoever, mean, parsimonious.A stingy person is called "bakhil both in Arabic as well as Somali. A bakhil likes keeping his money and gives it only when he is asked. 

The opposite of stinginess is generousness. A generous person gives money without being asked first and likes giving it. Stinginess means "Refraining from spending something which is supposed to be spent and refraining from giving freely to someone else because of excessive love for money and property. According to imam Ghazali, stinginess is to keep property or money endowed upon one by Allah, refraining from spending it on the reason of creation; wastefulness is using something for a reason except the reason of creation, and it is generousness to use and spend something in accordance with the reason of creation.  In this verse, Allah criticizes those who do not use their money for the sake of Allah, fearing that it will decrease, and states that it is wrong of them to think that this is good for them and that it is not good for them at all. All the property they have saved and have not spent for Allah will be hanged around their necks in the form of a fire-collar on the Day of Judgment. Allah the Supreme calls them to give up stinginess, by threatening them with this terrible wrath. Actually, man comes to this world, having nothing. Allah, with His great generousness, endows upon them property and enriches them. And eventually, when Allah wants them to help others with the property which He gave to them, they refuse to help, forgetting that it was all given to them by Allah, and claiming that they are the real owners of them. However, it is necessary to use not only the property, but also all kinds of boons such as abilities, skills and knowledge, which Allah endowed upon us helping the way of Allah. They think that their property will decrease if they give alms and charity from them and that it is better for them to save their money instead of using it for helping others. However, it is bad for them to do so. One day they will depart from this world and all the money they have saved will be left behind. The true owner of all property is only Allah the Supreme. On the Day of Judgment, one will find with him only the property which he spent for helping others. That is what will be useful to him. In fact, feelings which Allah the Glorious has placed in humankind’s disposition are not evil by themselves. 

What is evil is to make improper use of them. If the feeling of stinginess is used for not giving any from boons which Allah has endowed on one, with the passion for saving money for the worldly life, and thus hindering social aid, it is wrong and impropriety. Actually, Islam which prohibits wastefulness also prohibits stinginess.Stingy people think that bounties which Allah has endowed generously are only for them and do not admit that poor people have got the right for a share from them. Those who do not know that property and treasures are means of testing direct others to be stingy too. Actually, this reality is expressed in the following verse as follows:"Those who have not failed to give the shares of the poor people from their property are blissful personalities. Allah’s bounties are different for every person. "One should give alms from the bounties endowed upon him, as if he were a trustee and a servant. It is possible to categorize factors resulting in stinginess fewer than two titles:  Excessive love for property holdings and ambition of saving moneyThe leading reason of stinginess, which is one of the negative ways of human beings, is excessive love for property holdings and ambition of saving money because the desire for richness and ambition for saving money are present in humankind’s disposition. For this reason, they always work for this world and save money. As it is stated in this verse, there is so much love for richness and so much ambition for saving money in human beings’ heart that they always care for themselves only. And they care about others so little or not at all. Even if they had everything in the world and even if the treasures of Allah’s mercy belonged to them, they would still hesitate to use them for helping others fearing that they would decrease in amount. In their narrow hearts do reasons form which enchain their hands with cuffs of stinginess. Islam explains to people that their excessive love for richness will lead them to their own destruction, in nice and persuasive ways. If one thinks of the end of property, he will understand that it is better for him to be generous. In fact, one has got no other possessions on the earth than what he eats up, he wears and what he spends for the sake of Allah and saves for his otherworldly life.  It is really astonishing that one struggles with all his power for saving money and property which he will leave to his inheritors in the end and receives Allah’s wrath for this reason.  However, man is mortal. As it is impossible for them to live forever, they try to satisfy this feeling by having children who will continue their lineage. 

 Islam considers one’s property and children a means of testing just like other boons and bountiesIf one behaves lazily and avoids doing the necessary things and sacrificing, all these boons and bounties turn out to be troubles and even the greatest enemies for him. Islam orders people to be good to their own selves first, and then to his families, then to relatives and finally to all other people.. Disadvantages of Stinginess. While generousness is praised in Islam, stinginess is excoriated. One should refrain from stinginess to the utmost degree because stinginess is one of the reasons which destroyed previous civilizations. As a matter of fact, stinginess led them to shed blood and consider harams to be halal, as it is stated in the hadith. "There are two characteristics which cannot exist in a believer. They are stinginess and low ethics this characteristic can be likened to selfishness that is the source of many evils. Actually, a selfish person spoils many social relationships by using all opportunities, whether be material or spiritual, to satisfy his caprices. He breaks off social links. For instance, it prevents visiting relatives, caring for friends and relatives, giving gifts to each other and helping the needy people. Stinginess causes unhappiness. The public criticizes stingy people and a stingy person cannot receive respect from people. Shortly, stinginess is a disease that prevents all kinds of good deeds and charities; because charities can be done giving the boons, which Allah has endowed upon one in various ways, generously to needy people. And stinginess prevents one from giving freely to other people for the sake of Allah.

Stinginess has got many disadvantages related both to individuals and to society. Stinginess neither allows the possessor of property to benefit from it nor the society to benefit from it, by encaging the property. So, stinginess causes many significant problems in society and in finance. Keeping property because of stinginess causes financial crisis. It causes the ethics to degenerate and hearts to become seditious. Ways to Escape Stinginess. Islamic scholars consider stinginess a disease of the heart and state that this disease can be cured only with knowledge and practice. Service to God is the job of earning a secondary disposition by putting Islam’s orders into practice. One can escape stinginess by being generous. One should believe that boons come only if Allah endows them and one should learn to be generous and get accustomed to be generous by supplicating beginning from the childhood. a) Treatment through knowledge: It is possible to get over the disease of stinginess only by learning its harms related to ethics, religion and social aspects and the ways of getting rid of it. A person who knows dangers of stinginess refrains from it. For instance, would a person who knows how dangerous a snake is play with it? Would he let that snake sleep with him in his bed? Similarly, a person who knows how dangerous stinginess is quits this negative characteristic. Treatment through practice: This treatment is possible by dealing with people’s problems. "Whoever does not share the problems of believers is not one of us. Therefore, we should care about people’s problems in the society that we are a part of. Although we may find it difficult, we have to help the poor and needy people in our society. If we get ourselves accustomed to generousness and save ourselves from stinginess, we can help the poor and needy people in our society. There are the rich and the poor in every society. They should help each other; especially the rich should help the poor. If the rich are stingy and the poor are impatient, the balance and orderliness of the society will decline. Theft, extortion, conflicts and shedding blood will start in the society; as it has been seen in all stages of history. And this will result in the destruction of that society. People will start shedding blood and considering harams to be halal.

 The larger the gap between the poor and the rich grows, the more we see unfairness and cruelty in the society and all kinds of injustice start to spread over in the society. Increase and spread of injustice is considered an indication of proximity of destruction. In this sense, stinginess is one of the reasons of injustice. We can say that this is the reason why stinginess is mentioned together with injustice.  One of the ways to get rid of stinginess, fear of poverty and greed is to think about the situation of stingy people and think that everybody hates them. Even a stingy person does not like other stingy people. There is not a stingy person who likes stingy people. If a stingy person thinks about it, he will understand that he is considered gloomy and terrible, and is disliked by other people, like other stingy people, too. Moreover, it is possible to get over the psychological disease of stinginess by thinking about the aim of gaining property. As a matter of fact, property is for meeting needs. After taking the amount of what we need, we should spend the rest for saving our otherworldly life. If a believer can comprehend that it is better to spend for otherworldly life than keeping property, the desire for spending on the way of Allah will predominate in his heart. Remembering death often, thinking about friends or relatives who tired themselves to death while struggling for saving money and gaining property and that all they had were in vain after their death can help people quit stinginess, too. Allah the Glorious teaches us how we can compensate for our shortcomings and weaknesses via His attributes and how we can reach the sublime ones and wants us to develop our characters in accordance with divine ethics. Allah has got beautiful names and attributes, one of which is generousness. That is to say, Allah is generous and likes those who are generous. So, if people follow this attribute of Allah and become generous, they are thus saved from stinginess which Allah dislikes and also please Allah. Actually, Ghazali states that the cure of stinginess is possible by doing the opposite of stinginess that is generousness; that is to say, spending property on the way of Allah. Human beings were created as stingy and impatient. That means these traits come from their disposition. Moreover, they have got both negative traits such as hatred, grudge and enmity and positive traits such as love, affection and kindness. 

Each of these is a corridor leading to either good or evil. In this sense, human beings should close the doors opening to evils and control their negative feelings and passions with the help of religious thoughts and feelings, which is called in religion "secondary disposition.” One should develop this disposition so that he can comprehend the perfection that is destined for him, that is, he can turn his disposition, which can turn into anything, to be something good, that is, into a believer. A stingy person will avoid paying the bills or insist on splitting the bills anytime he takes you out. Such a guy believes in collecting from you rather than giving. Such person complains a lot. The funny thing is that when it comes to what happens under the sheets, they are all zeal and vigour. Some men don’t actually know they are stingy for real; they believe they are saving for the rainy day. It’s incumbent on you to make them aware in a friendly manner that they are a little bit lax and nonchalant about taking care of some of your basic needs. Let him know. Don’t be scared that he may become angry. No probes; let him be angry but you have already relayed the point. You might be surprised that the guy may feel you don’t have financial needs especially if you are a working class lady. You ought to let him know that despite that you earn some money, you still do have some needs to take care of; and you being his baby, you are depending on him to cater for some of those needs. There is nowhere else to go; unless he wants you to depend on your admirers. Please, do not make it sound like a threat but say it in a joking manner. The best way to teach someone something is by example. Every once in a while, do buy him a sentimental but simple gift. He will have no choice other than to reciprocate. Courtesy is the one coin you can never have too much of or be stingy with. German researchers took samples of cells from inside the mouths of 101 young men and women and tested them for a gene called COMT. The gene, which comes in 'G' and 'A' versions, is known to influence brain chemistry and the researchers believed it may do so in a way that affects how generous - or not - we are towards others. This means that other factors, such as upbringing, education and religion also play a role

3. Jealousy: There few elements of the society who are jealousy of someone in a better position vis-à-vis education, wealth, power or influence as they become unpleased when observe someone better for any of status. The chaps I mean become upset when view someone in better position. Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust. Jealousy root cause Lack of self confidence: The main cause for feelings of jealousy are your doubts about your abilities or skills. If you were one hundred percent sure of yourself you would have never suffered from any jealousy feelings. Jealousy root cause: Poor self image: Having a poor self image is another cause of jealousy. If you believe that you look ugly or that you are not that handsome then chances are you'll be experiencing feeling of jealousy whenever you meet someone who looks better than you. Jealousy root causeFear: One of the root causes behind jealousy is being afraid. This fear can be a fear of ending up alone, a fear of being rejected or a fear of losing the love of your partner. Jealousy root cause: Insecurity: Feelings of insecurity are the result of the two previously mentioned causes. A poor self image and lack of self confidence can result in making you feel insecure about a relationship and this can be a strong reason that can make you jealous. Jealousy is a typical experience in human relationship.. It has been observed in infants five months and older. Some claim that jealousy is seen in every culture; however, others claim jealousy is a culture-specific phenomenon. In our life we have to face many types of people. Some people are very loving and very kind to us but in the whole world and very near to us there is some people who are very jealous with us because of our more beauty more power and many other reasons of the jealousy. It is very difficult for the jealousy peoples to service in this world because this is the world of love where you can win the others by love and no place for the jealous people. Some people Jealous with you because of your happy nature and because many people love you and wants to spent time with you. Some people feel jealous for others because of their power.  How to handle jealousy? Understand the emotion of jealousy. 

4.Emotional triblists.

In addition to the above, I have noted people who are tribally emotional, but it comes to real material support, they decline to cooperate with the rest of those willing to extend material support. Emotion is thinking subjective, conscious experience characterized primary by physiological expression, biological reactions, and mental states.  Emotion is often associated and considered equally influence with mood, temperament and personality. The outcome of the emotions is that they lead us astray. Anyone can become angry. That is easy. Emotion is primarily about nothing, and much of it remains about nothing to the end. Emotion is just as the pleasure-pain mechanism of man’s body. The physiology of emotion is closely linked to arousal of the nerve system with various states and strengths of arousal relating, apparently, to particular emotions. The cognition of danger and subsequent arousal of the nervous system is an integral component to the subsequent interpretation and labelling of that arousal as an emotional state. Emotion is also linked to behavioural tendency. Extroverted people are more likely to be social and express their emotions, while introverted people are more likely to be more socially withdrawn and conceal their emotions. Emotion is sometimes feelings. Feeling is to describe the t the physical sensation of touch.A distinction can be made between emotional episodes and emotional dispositions. Emotional dispositions are also comparable to character traits, where someone may be said to be generally disposed to experience certain emotions. For example, an irritable person is generally disposed to feel irritation more easily or quickly than others do. Finally, some theorists place emotions within a more general category of "effective states" where effective states can also include emotion-related phenomena such as pleasure and pain, motivational states (for example, hunger, curiosity, moods dispositions and traits. The classification of emotions has mainly been researched from two fundamental viewpoints. The first viewpoint is that emotions are discrete and fundamentally different constructs while the second viewpoint asserts that emotions can be characterized on a dimensional basis in groupings. 

The emotion that you can create in your story is the key to whether it’s compelling or not. Some authors are incredible at taking a reader on an emotional roller coaster resulting in a climax to the protagonist that is both unexpected and real. So storytelling is a natural part of life and some of us are better at it than others. Creating a story that can set someone on a journey that will entertain, enrich and develop a reader is no mean feat but the best of them are those that tap in to the emotions completely. A good storyteller feels the characters as he’s presenting the story, enabling him to pass on the emotions, and so should a writer feel his characters before he writes it down. But while the standard of value operating the physical pleasure-pain mechanism of man’s body is automatic and innate, determined by the nature of his body—the standard of value operating his emotional mechanism is not. Since man has no automatic knowledge, he can have no automatic values; since he has no innate ideas, he can have no innate value judgments. Man is born with an emotional mechanism.Emotions are the most present, pressing and sometimes painful force in our lives. We are driven day by day by our emotions. We take chances because we're excited for new prospects. We cry because we've been hurt and we make sacrifices because we love. Without a doubt, our emotions dictate our thoughts, intentions and actions with superior authority to our rational minds. But when we act on our emotions too quickly, or we act on the wrong kinds of emotions, we often make decisions that we later lament. 

Our feelings can alter between dangerous extremes. Negative emotions, like rage, envy or bitterness, tend to spiral out of control, especially immediately after they've been triggered. In time, these sorts of emotions can grow like weeds, slowly conditioning the mind to function on detrimental feelings and dominating daily life. Ever met a person who's consistently angry or hostile? They weren't born that way. But they allowed certain emotions to stir within them for so long that they became inbred feelings arising all too frequently. So how can we avoid operating on the wrong types of feelings and master our emotions under the harshest of circumstances? Follow my six steps to control your emotions and regain rationality in any challenging situation:day. But we often take wrong actions when wrong feelings filter through our mind without restraint. To avoid the burn of acting out during an emotional upsurge, take a few simple steps to calm your heightened spirit and quiet your uneasy mind. When the moment has passed (in hindsight), you'll be grateful you were able to be the master of your emotions. In conclusion any decision which we reach while we are in emotion mood result failure. We can control our emotions by minimizing our anxiety, sadness and anger and that will generate common understanding and happiness. It is too dangerous when our emotion is based on tribal basis. Finally one has to live in reality and not by emotion. It’s so amazing how everything about you can change from one moment to another depending on what you are conscious about. When you operate from a different state of consciousness, you will have a different set of thoughts and feelings flowing through you. Your entire range of thoughts can shift from one to another when you move from one state of feeling into another. The frequency of vibration you are experiencing puts you into a whole different reality altogether. 

That is why it is important to be in the right emotional state in order to communicate and act in the right way. When you act from right states, you will have the right effects. The energy you give out is the results you get. Whenever you want to do something that is important to you, first change your state of consciousness to one where you are experiencing positive feelings and then go ahead and act from that state.  Of course you may not always be able to get yourself into a positive state with positive feelings at first. You may have to start off with a less positive state and emotion but as you move through with that state and work with getting it engaged in the beginning, you can fulfil the purpose the negative state is meant to serve and then shift it to a more positive state and emotion. Then you can bring the emotional state to higher and higher levels from there. When you are in a low state of vibration and emotion, you find that there are many things you can’t seem to do. The truth is that we can’t do anything unless we feel like doing it. Even if we do it without the necessary emotions for it, we will not be able to do it with the quality and effectiveness it should have. Our emotions affect the quality and effectiveness of our actions in a big way. Your actions have more effectiveness when you act with positive states and emotions. Emotions and anger survive only a short time.   Replace your thoughts. Negative emotions bind us to recurring negative thoughts, creating cycles of downright negative patterns. Whenever you are confronted with an emotion which is making you feel or think something bad, force it out of your mind and replace it with a different thought. Imagine the ideal resolution to your problem playing out, think about someone who makes you happy or remember an event that makes you smile. Forgive your emotional triggers. Your emotional triggers may be your best friend, your family members, yourself or all of the above. You may feel a sudden wave of anger when your friend "does that thing,” she does or a stab of self-loathing when you remember something you could have done differently. But when you forgive, you detach. You detach from the resentment, the jealousy or the fury lingering within you. You allow people to be who they are without the need for escalating emotions. As you forgive, you will find yourself disassociating from the harsh feelings attached to your being. Talk to yourself. Emotions are sneaky. One minute you're fine, the next you feel yourself sliding downhill. Worry move stealthily in. Something, or maybe several things, didn't go as well as you'd hoped, and you're headed down a dark path.  Fuel up. Emotions don't play fair. They attack when you're most vulnerable: when your schedule is packed with events, chores, and responsibilities. Make sure you first take care of basic needs like food, water, sleep, and exercise. You'll find it much easier to stay calm, cool,
 
 
5. Proxy elements.  There are some people of the society who cannot express their ideas independently; instead they request others to speak on their behalf proxy elements of the society.  Person authorized to act for another; an agent or substitute. Proxy is an agent or substitute authorized to act for another person or a document which authorizes the agent so to act, and may also be used in the following contexts. Proxy fight is when is fighting in behalf of someone else I have come across a situation whereby some personalities hire another one to speak on behalf of him.  In computers networks, a proxy server is sever (a computer system or an application) that acts as an intermediary for requests from clients seeking resources from other servers. A client connects to the proxy server, requesting some service, such as a file, connection, web page, or other resource available from a different server and the proxy server evaluates the request as a way to simplify and control its complexity. Proxies were invented to add structure and encapsulation to distributed systems. An Authorization Letter gives the holder of the letter the authority to either grant permission for something or collect something from somewhere.  It is normally given when the individual in command is not available for the necessary approvals so authorizes another, reliable individual in her/his place to give the sanctions. Lawyers and their clients for collecting legal documents also use an Authorization Letter.

It is a very important document as it gives the power that is exerted at the giver’s discretion. The individual who gets this letter has a lot of responsibility on her/his shoulders. As Superman says, With great power comes great responsibility. While writing an Authorization Letter the writer must be sure to whom s/he is giving the letter, as it needs to be given after serious thinking. The recipient of the letter should be a trusted person known to be having no mal-intentions. An Authorization Letter should be simple and crisp. It should clearly indicate who is being authorized and for what work. The exact validity of the authorization forms a very important part of this letter. There should be no room for ambiguity in the Authorization Letter as it is a very powerful tool in the recipient’s hands. It is recommended to stopping that bad behaviour whereby hidden personalities hire others proxy in an effort to speak on behalf of them.   There are many situations in which a person may require someone else to represent his interests. The representative is considered a proxy for the person. In certain sensitive situations, such as financial or health matters, a letter of proxy may be required. A letter of proxy is a legal letter used to establish a representative relationship between two people. The proxy acts in place of the person she represents, and thus has the same authority and rights. A letter of proxy should be signed and dated by both parties, and may even require an attorney or notary to witness. A proxy letter can save someone time while still maintaining a presence in the proceedings. It can also allow a person to send someone more knowledgeable of the affairs to act as his proxy, such as an accountant to act as proxy in the case of a financial transaction. It is shameful that someone is hired by some else to speak on his behalf.   
 
6. The HatredPractically I have noted some elements of the society that, the level haterc to others  make them blind and in the event love is blind, then hate is a deaf. In our routine life, day after day, we observe many things that some of them make us feel pleased and others that impact us feel alarming situation. The reason that made me writing this article is that, I have come upon some portions of Somaliland society that hates the people that originates from Somalia and to the reached to the extent, even they hates watching the television channels reporting from Somalia. This is called hatred. But what is hatred.   Hatred is a special type of attitude.  It is a deep aversion or revulsion.  In this sense, it is running away from something in a very profound way.  It is also an ego trait that is very common in human being. Hatred is a way to shut down the mind to a degree, in order to the situation or person, and this revulsion or rejection is called hatred.  In this regard, hatred is always hatred is always a generalization of false new conclusion. Our minds are designed to reason inductively. This means we can take few facts, and we can generalize and draw conclusions based upon them. Therefore, hatred is hardening of the mind and spirit in a direction. Hatred is the result of poorly developed boundaries of personality.  Hatred is one way to forcefully separate yourself from others, or from ideas and concepts that one wishes to separate from. Politically, many people secretly hate freedom and do not decision for him.  This is called elitism (Someone who believes in rule by an elite group) and it is a form of hatred of the commoner. Others hate anyone who believes differently in any way than they do. Hatred (or hate) is a deep and emotional extreme dislike. It can be directed against individuals, entities, objects, or ideas. Hatred is often associated with feelings of anger, disgust   and a disposition towards hostility. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Success makes so many people hate you.  It would be wonderful to enjoy success without seeing envy in the eyes of those around you. The opposite of love is not hate, its indifference. Hate, it has caused a lot of problems in the world, but has not solved one yet.” Hatred is the coward's revenge for being intimidated. Our hands tend to be full enough dealing with people who hate me for who I am. Concentrate too hard on the millions of people who hate you for what you are and you're likely to turn into one of those unkempt. Save your skin from the corrosive acids from the mouths of toxic people. Someone who just helped you to speak evil about another person can later help another person to speak evil about you. Protect your good image from the eyes of negative viewers, who may look at your good appearance with an ugly fiendish eye, and ruin your positive qualities with their chemical infested tongues.” Those who attempt to conquer hatred by hatred are like warriors who take weapons to overcome others who bear arms. This does not end hatred, but gives it room to grow. But, ancient wisdom has advocated a different timeless strategy to overcome hatred. This eternal wisdom is to meet hatred with non-hatred. The method of trying to conquer hatred through hatred never succeeds in overcoming hatred. But, the method of overcoming hatred through non-hatred is eternally effective. 

That is why that method is described as eternal wisdom. Those who hate others should understand that, we cannot the status by hating him.  Hate can almost always be rooted in our instinctual needs and wants, but it is our environment, the way we grow up that teaches us how to process those instincts. We all have certain feelings and needs, but some people are taught to process information in different ways. However, there is no moral reason hating who did not make any to us. A lot of people are taught to do this to a certain extent.  Some people have beliefs so ingrained into them though that it causes all reason and logic to go askew when it comes to that topic or feeling.  Hating is stupid of all kind.  Hostility towards another person springs from fear, the fear that this person may hurt you in some way. Disagreements with another person can come about because of the sin of pride. This is when you feel that you must prove your worth, at all costs, even if you are wrong. Jealousy very soon turns to hatred although it can be mild to begin with. Dislike of oneself begins because you compare your life with others whom you feel have better fortune than you. Very soon this dislike develops into hatred of oneself and one’s body. This then leads into sins of the flesh. When you feel hatred you must know that Satan has managed to invade your spirit. When this happens he will hold you in a vice-like grip and will not leave you alone. No matter how much you try to release his grip, he will hold onto you for dear life. When hatred takes hold of your heart and soul, you become one step further removed from your sins. You suffer terribly and feel anger and a helplessness which you cannot control. Your hatred can only be dissipated when you seek final revenge on the target of your hatred. What to do when hatred envelops you? The power of love can evaporate hatred, instantly. There are few people who feel hatred in the event they feel someone else is advanced either in a terms of wealth, education or experiences. As change is inevitable, let us replace hatred with love. Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. Things do not change, we change. Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future. In concision change your opinions, keep to your principles; but keep intact your roots. ‘One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood. Friendship is one mind in two bodies, which mean both persons that established friendship
  
7. IgnoranceThere is large number of the society talk about any issues that didn’t know even a fraction of truth and they are totally ignorant about the issues which are on subject of discussion. Ignorance is a state of being uninformed lack of knowledge. The word ignorant is an adjective describing a person in the state of being unaware and is often used as an insult to describe individuals who deliberately ignore or disregard important information or facts. Individuals with superficial knowledge of a topic or subject may be worse off than people who know absolutely nothing. Ignorance can stifle learning, especially if the ignorant person believes that they are not ignorant. A person who falsely believes he or she is knowledgeable will not seek out clarification of his or her beliefs, but rather rely on his or her ignorant position. He or she may also reject valid but contrary information, neither realizing its importance nor understanding it. Knowledge will forever govern ignorance; and a people who mean to be their own governors must arm themselves with the power which knowledge.  The most violent element in society is ignorance. The greatest obstacle to discovery is not ignorance - it is the illusion of knowledge. Knowledge is power, and ignorance is bliss. Terrible acts are committed every minute of every day. Even our very own lives are laden with painful memories and awful situations. Thus, without knowledge, where would we be? Those with more information are almost always on top. Without information and knowledge, you can’t get ahead in life. We need to knowledge to overcome ignorance. Knowledge is a familiarity, awareness or understanding of someone or something, such as facts, information, skills which is acquired through experiences, education, earning. Knowledge can refer to a theoretical or practical understanding of a subject. It can be implicit (as with practical skill or expertise) or explicit as with the theoretical understanding of a subject); it can be more or less formal or systematic. People without the knowledge of their past history, origin, and culture is like tree without roots. Today knowledge has power. it controls access to opportunity and advancement.. The whole thing is to learn every day, to get brighter and brighter. That's what this world is about. You look at someone like Gandhi, and he glowed. Martin Luther King glowed. Muhammad Ali glows. I think that's from being bright all the time, and trying to be brighter.
 
 
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